The lifestyle you desire, whether it be one crammed full of exotic travel, settled with a loving family around you, rich and famous, or recognized within your field as an expert . . . . all of this is possible when you remember the following steps.

  1. Let Go of Old Preconceptions of Success
    Only when you accept it is possible for people, and that includes YOU, to fulfil your dreams completely then and only then, you can create the lifestyle you desire.
  2. Identify Limiting Beliefs
    It might be you need to do an internal search to see what has been holding you back.  Just as you would type a keyword into google to search for something, try a keyword search within your psyche and see what comes up.  Try ‘typing’ in words which carry some sort of emotional charge for you and then either carrying on writing to lose this charge, or work with a coach to help let any ‘stuff’ go you may have around success.  Or simply just be aware of it and it will lose its power.
  3. Visualise
    What do you want?  Have you ever sat down and really thought about your ideal lifestyle specifically?  Have a go in words, pictures, cut-outs from magazines etc. It’s a fun exercise to do and gets you focused on outcomes.
  4. Act As If
    When you’ve worked out exactly what you want from your lifestyle, the next step is to act as if you have already achieved it.  It helps to get you aligned to the end goal and when energy is aligned, miracles happen. 
  5. Make A Plan
    Miracles work better with some planning.  It’s always a good idea once you’ve got your goals in mind, to work with someone to help map the way.  This could be a business coach, a mentor or even just a good friend who has some business acumen.
  6. Take Action
    The ideal lifestyle doesn’t just happen, no matter how much we wish it so.  You need to take the required action steps.  If this means meeting some of your limiting beliefs head on, then full steam ahead!  You’re on your way.
  7. Reward Yourself
    Remember to treat yourself with every success, no matter how small it seems.


Creating your ideal lifestyle sounds easy . . . and it can be.  All you need to do is get out of your own way, picture what you really want, allow yourself to have it and then take the required steps to get there.  This week, why not take that first step?  You never know, you might just be one step closer to the lifestyle of your dreams.

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